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I Need Help
August 6, 2008

If any of you can help me out? I'm going though some tuff times right now. My wife told me on Fathers day she didn't want to be with me anymore. I Love her with all my heart. I Love You Shy. I want you back in my life. She is in NJ though thanks for the advice and no longer in military.

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	Have you tried counseling? Best of luck. Go Red Sox! 08/06/2008 6:13 AM
Knarfy

	You're in Glens Falls? If you want to contact me privately, I can probably recommend some place for you to go for counseling. 08/06/2008 6:17 AM
ImpossDr..

	Get a good pit bull lawyer and I hope you had a prenup. Play ball! 08/06/2008 6:23 AM
shoestring

	You do need help. You're not going to find it here. This is a baseball site. Sometimes relationships don't work out. You need to speak to a counslor-- you'll find a list in the yellow pages. Good Luck. 08/06/2008 7:28 AM
Re-Sign ..

	Definitely counseling (And not from people online) 08/06/2008 7:48 AM
∞14/09..

	I'm assuming you're still a GI man, so...try Military One Source (After a referral from the base clinic). Honestly, they're your best bet for help. Thing is, Shy's gotta buy off on it too, because counseling with one member of the family, only helps that person. It's a couple thing, so you BOTH should be there. 08/06/2008 10:20 AM
Wayne-r

	Talking to a pastor can also help. 08/06/2008 11:47 AM
Redsoxfa..

Hey, sir. I have mad respect for your wife and from what she always said she loves you. Look for the breakdown in the communication process, brother. With those beautiful kids I know you got a lot in common. I have found with my wife and believe me we have our moments but I have found that Jenn says she doesnt want to be with me about every few months. Usually she is trying to communicate something that I am not being receptive to. A lot of times I have found women try and try to communicate with us but we dont really pay attention like they want to and being micro-managers they try to fix us and when they realize we cant be fixed they want to leave. Stay positive and LISTEN!! sometimes it just takes time...be a consistent source of support, love & loyalty whatever the direction is that your relationship heads in...if its meant to be then you will reconcile and if its not then you two will stay in close proximity due to the children,....think about whats best for the children through it all...keep the faith...you are not alone...the universe is unfolding as it should....BELIEVE....PRAY.....LOVE/LOYALTY......She might just be feeling the residual from being alone with the kids for so long while you were overseas.....give her a little space but call her EVERYDAY!!! que sera sera..GOD BLESS YA, bro....Shy used to talk a lot about you when she was more active on here and she's a good kid so stay strong. ...View More

08/07/2008 1:39 PM

JESTER~RSM

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