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September 9, 2008

Over the last year I have had a lot time to reflect on family.  First, my dad got sick and went to the hospital for surgery.  Then on 22 April 2008 my son, Jonathan David, passed away.  Also, on 3 September 2008 I got promoted to the rank of Gunnery Sergeant (that is E7 in the Marine Corps to those of you in other services).  First two are obviously about family but I will explain the last one later.

I realized that the most important relationships in our lives, the one with our mothers, fathers, sisters and brothers are so important that God makes the decision for us.  They may not be the best relationships but those realtionships have the most influence on who we are going to be.  But God in his infinite wisdom and love gave us the choice to find more family in other places.

I was fortunate to find brothers and sisters in the Marine Corps that I love and will keep in contact with for the rest of my life.  I was able to find my wife and even though that is not working out, I would not change any of it. 

Another part of my family is my Red Sox family.  All the great friends that I have met through this site and at games has been amazing.  Bonds of brotherhood and sisterhood that will remain for years to come.

That it why I believe so strongly in family and the idea of the Red Sox Mafia.  The most important thing you can have in life is your family, and it does not have to be blood relatives.  I'd like to thank all of you for being in my family and for allowing me in yours.

-Jed (The Poet)


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Thanks Jed and thanks for your service. You have a great perspective and you have plenty of family here!
09/09/2008 9:09 AM
~Joe Sox..
Thank you for sharing and your service. I am glad there are people like you protecting people like me. Sorry for your losses and your troubles but it has made you stronger. Now let's take over the East (sorry had to end on a sox note).
09/09/2008 9:41 AM
Slaps
Jed this post left me speechless.. I cant for the life of me comprehend loosing one of my kids.. I envy your strength Brother ^5
09/09/2008 10:29 AM
Murph
Literally brought tears to my eyes. You can't say that about any other fans in any sport. There's nothing like the Nation. Thanks for your service and your beautiful words, Jed.
09/09/2008 10:43 AM
Keep our..
Jed,thanks for your service to our great country.It's unfortunate,but sometimes it takes a tragedy to make us realize just what our priorities are/should be.I'm sorry for your loss of a child.Stay strong and know full well that you do have another extension of family here on SH's;we'll be here when you need us.
09/09/2008 10:44 AM
MIKEYMOM..
I thank you for your service, courage & inspiration. And for sharing such a heartfelt and emotional story. Family, whether blood or not, is the most important thing in life.
09/09/2008 10:56 AM
ruff13
thank you for your service sir, you are a an asset to the country to this site and to all who know you ,
09/09/2008 11:10 AM
RED SOX ..
AS RSM ALREADY STATED YOU SIR ARE AN ASSET TO THE COUNTRY THE SITE AND THE FAN BASE , KEEP THE FAITH BROTHER
09/09/2008 11:14 AM
Darkhalf..
(online now)*
I didn't know about your loss...I am truley sorry...my heart is full of pride just KNOWING you..a little of you. Yet I feel close to you..if that makes sence? To serve and keep us safe..and share your wonderful poetry is inspiring to all of us. Keep the Faith! And thank you!!
09/09/2008 11:30 AM
Terry~RS..
SORRY ABOUT YOUR LOSSES....AND I AM HAPPY TO HAVE ADDED YOU AS FAMILY BROTHAH! FOREVER AND ALWAYS BROTHAH! RSM/RLF!
09/09/2008 2:49 PM
IRISH WH..
Ooh Raw Gunny! Thank you for sharing!
09/10/2008 12:36 AM
CaliGrow..
wow , (wiping my eyes) it is an HONOR to call you Family . like you said 'it may not be blood ' , but , you are my Red Sox Brother .
09/10/2008 1:17 PM
Dan-in-P..
This must of been so difficult to write...u truly are "One of a Kind"....an u will always be in my family *hugs*
09/10/2008 1:17 PM
♥Noel ..
I appreciate your sharing this with us. Last night I was out with my Dad (age 87), yes, at Fenway .. and we were musing because I have a close friend... (cont'd)
09/10/2008 4:35 PM
section15
whose wife may very well be leaving us soon (cancer). At age 58. My daughter is leaving the miltary in January - after 10 years -- to pursue a different career (physicians' assistant).
09/10/2008 4:37 PM
section15
But, anyway - it's important to appreciate what and who is around you. Always. Which is what Dad told me last night.
09/10/2008 4:40 PM
section15
WE ARE FAMILY!!!
09/11/2008 1:30 PM
Prayers ..
I JUST READ THIS. THANK YOU FOR SHARING. INSPIRATIONAL. WE ARE PROUD TO CALL YOU BROTHER!! FAMILY FIRST~ RESPECT~LOYALTY~!! WELCOME ABOARD, SIR!!! RSM 4 LIFE!!~~
09/13/2008 12:02 AM
JESTER~RSM
SEMPER FI! Thanks again for your service Gunny!!
09/15/2008 1:05 PM
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