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For My Sis.....
June 24, 2008

One of the sweetest, most caring person that I have ever known....My Sister Angelica. She was the definition of loyalty in my eyes.

My Sister was diagnosed with liver cancer June of 2007. She lost the battle on April of 2008. My sister was a huge baseball fan. She loved the Dodgers. When she had surgery last year to remove part of her liver, first thing she whispered in my ear when she was out of surgery was...."did the Dodger's win?". I smiled and said, "no". She just shook her head and fell back to sleep.

In 2004, when the Red Sox were in the brink of Elimination, down 0-3 to the Yanks, she called me and said, "how are you feeling?" I was feeling awful. Always with a positive outlook, she said, "its not over yet, you never know". When the Sox came back and won, she called and said, "I told you!" I was crying on the phone like a little girl. Ha ha. When the Sox swept the Cards, again, I spoke to her on the phone, crying....she said, "I'm so proud of you, your team finally made it!".  My dad was there with me, both drunk out of our mind, on the phone with my sister and I can hear him making fun of me because I had tears in my eyes. My Sister rooted for the Sox just because she wanted to see me happy.

She lived two (2) blocks away from the Los Angeles Memorial Coliseum. She bought me tickets for the March 29th, 2008 pre-season game, Dodgers vs. Sox. It was supposed to be a family event for us. She was informed on March 20th, 2008 that the cancer spread to her spine and stomach. Gave her a couple months. She passed away two weeks later.

I've learned to appreciate life, knowing that any day things can drastically change. Any problems that we may face now, remember that it could be worse. Open your eyes and see the blessings that surround us everyday!

I wanted to share this story with all of you. I wanted to vent a little and I thank all you who have taken the time to read this.



-alexval2121
 

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You sir have my deepest condolences having lost my sister a while back to kidney disease i know your pain and you are quite right don't sweat the little stuff and outside of family and health its all little stuff god bless you sir and may god keep her
06/24/2008 3:05 PM
Darkhalf..
A beautiful tribute! She is smiling down on you now, sir! Carry on in her name!! Thanks for sharing.
06/24/2008 3:11 PM
Xcaliber..
Excellent story, Alex. Excellent moral to the story. Keep the Faith (in life as well as in baseball)
06/24/2008 3:20 PM
∞MICHA..
My sincere condolences. It sounds like your sister was a first class lady. Thank you for sharing this very personal story. - John
06/24/2008 3:24 PM
John Gil..
So sorry to hear about your loss...you wrote a very nice piece here...it's unfortunate that sometimes in life we have to go through some tough,tragic times to understand things.
06/24/2008 3:25 PM
MIKEYMOM..
What a lovely tribute to your sister, Carlos. My thought and prayers are with you and your family... much respect.
06/24/2008 3:37 PM
Bosoxblo..
JUST WANT TO SEND OUT MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO YOU AND YOURS..LIVING WITH A CANCER VICTIM IS ONE OF LIFE'S MOST DIFFICULT CHALLENGE'S FOR MY GIRLFRIEND IS BATTLEING LUNG/BRAIN CANCER...EVERYDAY IS A STRUGGLE BUT BESIDES HAVING EACH OTHER..FAITH IS ALL WE HAVE...YOUR SIS SOUNDS LIKE A RARE BREED AND I'M SURE SHE WILL BE MISSED...KEEP THE FAITH BROTHER.AND REMEMBER SHE WILL ALWAYS BE THERE IN SPIRIT...
06/24/2008 3:47 PM
RSN14~RS..
Bro so sorry to hear that! Tough to go through im sure!
06/24/2008 4:49 PM
CaliGrow..
So sorry to hear,Alex R.I.P Angelica.
06/24/2008 5:01 PM
CITYOFCH..
I was touched when I read this. I have a brother,and a sister.God be with you.
06/24/2008 5:47 PM
solo9980
Blog of the year! Spectacular! So sorry for your loss. Just remember, she's in a better place, and will be there, waiting for you, many years from now. I'm sure she sees you, and is very proud.
06/24/2008 6:00 PM
What Did..
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. THings like this just aren't supposed to happen. I cannot imagine what you are going thru and wish you Godspeed. We'll understand this all, one day.
06/24/2008 6:47 PM
Scoobs-RSR
God bless your sister. Vaya con Dios. Life is too short. Not that it helps, but at least theres a guardian angel looking out for ya!
06/24/2008 6:59 PM
JESTER~RSM
This is a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing your sister with us. She is an inspiration for sure.
06/24/2008 7:14 PM
Re-Sign ..
May your sister rest in peace. Very impressive peace.
06/24/2008 7:37 PM
TrotDawg
Thank you, to all of you. I REALLY appreciate the kind words!!
06/24/2008 7:38 PM
alexval2..
A wonderful blog--and yet another reminder for us to keep life in perspective...Celebrate the great things in life that we have like Alex, Val and your brothers and sisters. Remember Christian in Iraq and all our brothers and sisters who are there and in Afghanistan. Remember all of our brothers and sisters who have suffered from a terrible illness. And celebrate, celebrate every day we have together. It's not corny, it's real. It's life. It's our life together. And the opportunities we have had to meet each other in cyberspace here, thanks to our love for the Red Sox, means that we are all the more richer for it. Thanks again for the blog. Kiss those babies for all of us--and give them an extra one in memory of your sister. ...View More

06/24/2008 7:51 PM
ImpossDr..
Sorry to hear about your sis. Funny how baseball can give families something to share, regardless of different generations or interests. Lost my brother and one of my favorite pix is from when we were kids and we walked to Coleman sports to meet Louis Tiante together. Think it was '75. Glad I got to celebrate in 04 w Dad and my sis! We felt he was there in spirit! God Bless!
06/24/2008 9:52 PM
~Joe Sox..
I'm pretty new to this site, and for the past week or so I've been just surfing around it, checking it out and enjoying the things it has to offer. My life, this past year or so, has had quite a few stressful moments, to say the least. Tonight, I came across this blog, and read it...twice. I right now have tears in my eyes that I am trying to blink away so that I can type this. I want the author of this to know that I am right now going to print out his blog, and when I get home from work, I'm framing it and putting it in my living room where I can read it whenever I feel down. ...View More

06/25/2008 1:28 AM
bosoxfan..
Im speechless...absolutely beautiful!
06/26/2008 1:29 AM
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